Losing Your Virginity: A Girl’s Guide to the First Time

If you are reading this and it fits the situation, then the topic is already a consideration in your mind.

You may have read about it, talked to a girlfriend who has been through the experience recently, and found out at school. We look forward to helping you here, with a short guide. Is for you.

First of all, you must feel that it is the right thing to do. You should NOT be pressured to do so, or the experience will not bring you the pleasure and fond memories you expect and deserve. You are in charge of your life and your body. You really should feel ready for it.

If you’ve been masturbating, you’ve probably had a clitoral orgasm, so you know what’s possible in terms of feelings. You must also know your own anatomy.

You know that you have outer lips that cover the vulva and inner lips that are very flexible. If your hymen is intact, it will tear it too, with the accompanying sensations and bleeding. To find out.

In the second consideration, do not have sex if you have drunk too much alcohol. You can get drunk and lose much of your judgment after just one drink.

The third consideration is to INSIST on condom use with your partner. The reasons for this are well known and there is certainly no excuse not to use it. You must be protected. This is a health concern, a very good way to prevent conception, and generally a good idea, as it will help slow your partner down by desensitizing him a bit.

So to start.

You can’t have too many foreplay. This should take the form of mutual kisses, erotic massages, exploring each other’s bodies, seeing where each of you are sensitive and have erogenous points. Do not rush. It will soon be over.

While you have foreplay, your uterus will produce the important moisture that is required. Believe us, the wetter the better. You can’t be too wet for the first time. If you are a bit adventurous, ask your partner to give you a cunnilingus, and if you can, give your partner a fellatio. These are wonderful signs of affection.

Get into it.

Make sure to put the condom on after foreplay (and maybe fellatio) if you haven’t already. The companion can take the first step to go directly to the standard missionary position. Bad idea. It is the worst position to lose your virginity. You are not in control, it will be more painful and you will not be able to do anything but stand there and take it.

Instead, try the girl in the top position. Here you are in control. Your vagina has never had anything before (like a penis) and should slowly accommodate it … and it will.

If you are losing your hymen, it is you who determines the speed and pressure with which it occurs. You won’t suffer, and if you’re not wet enough yet, you can apply some water-based vaginal lubricant (like KY). The feat is done soon and you can get to work.

At first, get your partner to move without pushing, simply by applying pressure while fully inserted into your vagina. As it begins to feel natural, you can begin to push.

At this point, you can change positions (assuming your partner has lasted) and turn on your back. Don’t just settle for the simple missionary position though, instead tilt your pelvis up slightly and ask your partner to hover in your arms and not lean over you … this when thrusting will stimulate both your clitoris and your G point.

There are many variables here, but lose your virginity as we suggest, and you will have pleasant memories in your mind instead of feeling empty or used.