talk dirty

One of the best ways to create an erotic scene is with a little naughty talk in the ear of your partner or your new partner. And as you know from preparing to come tonight, presentation is everything.

find your sexy voice

Everyone knows what a sexy voice is, but do you know how to find your own?

Talking deep is not enough, nor is it necessary to smoke a pack of cigarettes a day. This part has to do with your attitude and your ability to relax in the moment.

Start with your breath. Think about how you are breathing right now. Is it fast or is it slow? Your voice should move with this rhythm. With quick breaths, you’ll want to break up your sentences, and with longer breaths, you can give more detail.

Talk like you’re trying to whisper, but you’re out of breath. Her voice may drop a bit when doing this.

Or you can just relax and speak a little lower for the same effect.

What I’m gonna say?

If you’ve never talked dirty, then this is going to be an eye-opening experience. And you’re going to feel a little weird at first, but that’s normal.

Think about the things you love about the other person. Is it a particular body part? That’s great, you can use that.

You can start with something like “I love your (whatever body part you choose)” at the beginning. This turns you on and everyone likes a compliment. This will also show the other person that you are going to talk a bit.

You are not answering a question, so try not to use the word ‘because’. You don’t have to give a reason, you just love something.

But you can tell what that particular body part is doing to your body. Slow down and lengthen the conversation. Start with “I love your (any body part).” Pause and then end with “It makes my (choose your favorite sex organ) hot/wet/choose your reaction.”

Tell them how they make you feel in explicit detail and watch their reaction.

You are on your way to becoming a dirty talk pro.

As a side note, some people like to use words that can be derogatory, but I’d make sure the other person doesn’t mind before you try them.

Some will be very offended and that is not a good way to start a nice evening.

get comfortable

The reason many people don’t talk dirty is because they think they sound silly and that’s not the case.

As with anything new, you just need to jump in and try it out. Everyone has a first time for everything, and since you’re in a safe environment, no one is going to laugh at you.

Saying anything related to sex in the heat of an already exciting moment will sound like magic. You just need to spit it out a few times to feel comfortable saying it.

After a while, dirty talk will come naturally and your current partner will love it.