Lolita: a precociously seductive young lady
Parents, older sisters and brothers have the responsibility to protect the young potential Lolita.
Webster defines: ‘Lolita’… precociously seductive girl. ‘Precocious’… exceptionally early in development; smart beyond her years; advanced, advanced, developed, premature; ripe. ‘Seductive’…attractive; seductive; fascinating; captivating; draw, enchant; fascinating, magnetic; siren; desirable; Mouth watering.
Girls, especially cute or pretty girls, at age eight will begin to realize that they can elicit a response from others, especially men, with a special little smile or giggle. She soon finds that even her father, her older brother, and family friends give her a special kiss on the nose and a big hug, while running their fingers through her hair.
Every month and year, as she gets older, she is more aware of her ability to get more and more attention from more and more men. It is most likely not her desire to seduce every man she meets, but she probably finds that she is developing the ability to do so.
It is not common for eight-year-old girls to show interest in sex. They watch teens and adults kiss and touch each other and realize there’s a reason they’re doing it. The younger ones will want to imitate the older ones. Young girls may want to see a man naked and will knowingly go into the bathroom or restroom to achieve this. This can result in a response to exchange a look for a look and so on.
At the age of twelve, girls realize that their bodies have changed, and that boys and older men notice as well. It is human nature (female nature) to enjoy the stars and the expressions of men as they try to see more and more. All girls are aware of their ability to be attractive and captivating, even to their parents and siblings.
They soon learn, perhaps faster thanks to television, that they can do little things to make themselves even more desirable and stimulate quicker responses from the viewer.
Maybe on a hot sunny day she could deliberately act provocative while sucking on a lollipop while lying on the grass near the lawn chair where Daddy is sitting. Naturally, her bare feet face Daddy and she’s wearing a thin, flowing dress that falls close to her hips as he raises one leg over the other knee.
Maybe later in the day she claims she’s wearing this skinny dress when her brother walks by as she stands under the garden sprinkler laughing and slowly bending backwards.
A few days later, you might notice your uncle enjoying the shade under a tree near the clothes line. She is sure that her uncle finds her attractive and that he politely touches her whenever he can. She deliberately steps over her outstretched legs as she walks toward the house. She isn’t surprised when he grabs her and pulls her to the ground next to him and starts tickling her ribs.
Later in the night, he has a wish that his uncle will tickle him again. After mom and dad are in bed, she quietly goes from her room upstairs to his. Her uncle is sitting by her desk in his underpants. He immediately reaches for her jeans, but she quickly grabs the jeans and holds them behind her. She’s not surprised when he playfully pretends to take them off… and soon he’s tickling her ribs.
The next morning, she is ready to bring him breakfast when Mom asks for it. She places the tray on the nightstand and doesn’t resist when he sits down and pulls her to him and tickles her ribs again.
A week later, his brother returns home after working out at the gym. The young sister and her friend are sitting on the porch laughing and laughing. “What’s so funny, sister?” he asks. Sally wants me to ask if you want to play doctor and nurse.” She replies, “I wouldn’t feel safe with two nurses,” she jokes as she heads to her room.
The next morning, after dad leaves for work, she, her mom, and her brother are having breakfast together. When Mom goes to the kitchen for more cookies, Sister smiles and says kindly, “Doc, Mom and Dad won’t be home until late tonight.”
‘All girls, of all ages, have the potential to be Lolita. It is the responsibility of caring and effective parents to understand human nature and to believe and accept the fact that all children of all ages are sexually curious in all areas of sex. This is definitely the time to teach effective Sex Education (including “Sex Education Tips for Teens”). It is the responsibility of the parents to always be vigilant and to teach effective sexual education. Just as girl and boy masturbation should never be condemned, teaching girls how to safely manage their Lolita urges is a must…even in Christian homes
Parents and potential Lolita have a joint responsibility to talk frequently about sexual topics to avoid pitfalls in the future.