Love and Relationships – True Love is an Expression and Extension of the Self – Part 1

Many people continually seek love and affection of some kind, to be loved or to belong, whether it be from a spouse, parent, child, sibling, friends and peers, bosses and coworkers, and even pets. They continually think that something outside of themselves will fill an empty space within that they feel needs to be filled.

However, very rarely do they seek self-love, to love themselves, to honor themselves, to feel worthy, to accept and bless themselves and to have compassion for themselves, for the experiences they have endured. Why? Because humanity only looks at the external, they never come to think that energy is reflected from the inside to the outside. What you are inside, you project, to reflect your vibration to the outside. If you feel lost, alone and empty, what do you think you will attract back? Empty in your relationships? If you have fear and hate in your heart, do you think you can attract love and kindness back?

To address the theme of love, it can be divided into 4 main categories.

1 love
2. I love to do something
3.hate
4. True love

Let’s take a look at each individual category:

1. Love – Physical love is an extension of loving yourself. In your world, you have chosen to believe in certain patterns, duality and separation, and only bits and pieces of yourself that you choose to create and accomplish. When you stop seeing the physical being as a shell, made of blood, flesh and bones, that was born as a result of a mistake of atoms that perishes at death, you will begin to see that the soul and spirit are expressing and experiencing. life within that physical container, then your relationship with another is a way of seeking self-love, it is a way of feeling tender affection for someone or something through yourself.

Love is a way of feeling desire, of feeling romantic and sexual desire and longing for another, through oneself, and it is a way of sharing and doing something with another, through oneself. If you can have a romantic love relationship with another, can you have it with yourself? It is a path, because you are eternally inseparable, you are part of each other, you are an eternal divine being. Physical love is an extension of soul love, for within each lifetime you can experience love, to join in the wonder and glory of coming together once again. Who is your love? Who are you very fond of? Do you enjoy their company? Do you enjoy your own company? Do you love yourself? Do you love conditionally or unconditionally? What agendas do you cling to when you love another?

2. Love to do something – Love has many forms – it is not about loving another, but also about loving to do, be and have something – to fulfill a passion or a creative desire. Again, whatever you do, for example, a creative ability is reflecting your energy, you are showing your love for something: that creative talent is an extension of you. Do you have a strong taste or pleasure obtained from something? Do you like something that arouses a deep interest and enthusiasm in you? What do you like to do? Can you radiate that love to others? Can you share that love with you? What do you love to create and express in your reality?

3. Hate: The opposite of love is fear and hate. There is a very fine line between the two, because the injured person is the instigator in crossing that line. Due to old selfish beliefs, controls, and agendas, love can easily turn to hate when someone can’t get what he wants or loses what he can’t enslave. However, you cannot allow someone to cling to you if the relationship is not serving you or your partner in a powerful and satisfying way. Sovereignty and freedom have no rules that bind you to limited and confined walls.

Do you hate or have an intense dislike for someone or something? Are you unwilling to like someone or something? Are you hated by someone? Do you dislike or detest someone or something in a way that evokes feelings of anger, hostility, or animosity? Do you have a strong distance for something? Do you hate or dislike something, someone or something that has to be done? Are you upset with someone or something? Are you disgusted and can’t stand something or someone?

4. True love: True love is the expression and gathering of oneself, which is the same essence that flows through all others, the self and creation. You are interconnected with everything and when you love yourself you can love everyone else. When you can have a wonderful relationship with yourself, then you can have a wonderful relationship with others. Love is essentially a state of being, you cannot discover love until you develop love for yourself, you cannot love another until you love yourself, therefore self-love is loving everything in the universe, because everything on earth is within you.

Love is taking advantage of that part of the self; it is being receptive to inviting others into this space. For example, when you cheat or find fault with another, you are only revealing a weakness, dislike or irritation within yourself. The act of contraction leads you to not be loved, which creates a feeling of isolation and separation. It is a state of fear, an addiction for some kind of insecurity, anger or some emotional problem, but expansion and openness lead to total love.