Sacred Love – Lasting Relationships are Abundant in Love and Respect

In our relationships we often feel that we are not getting what we want. But if we were to examine each of these relationships clearly, we would find that we are getting exactly what we want, just not in the way we wanted.

A great example of this is affection. Say that you want affection from your lover and believe that the only way you can receive affection is through touch. Then you start to complain that your lover is not affectionate, to complain and compare him with someone, some ideal that gives you affection just the way you like it (which is always what you did not receive as a child). The truth is that they are giving you affection, because there are so many other ways it can happen, but you become blind to those other forms of affection because your ego tells you, “I want it, like this.” It’s like tunnel vision, just witnessing it one way. We get so obsessed with getting what we want and how we want it. So obsessed with feeding the hardened Ego what it wants, when it wants it, and in the way it wants it, that we don’t appreciate what we’re given and start complaining.

People become how you treat them. If you’re always walking around complaining that you’re not getting what you want, the way you want it, then you can be sure that your partner will walk away from you.

If you don’t appreciate what you have, you lose it. By going around complaining that something is missing, you are actually manifesting a loss. If you don’t see that you’re getting what you want, just in a different way, you’re always going to come to your relationship with complaints, “This is missing,” “That’s missing,” “This isn’t good enough.” “, and will eventually drive your partner away. People become how you treat them, and an ungrateful lover receives a scorned love. What is not appreciated, is depreciated.

You will have to prioritize love, return to that sacred moment every day, keep that absolutely beyond negotiation, this is a sacred relationship. Even if the sky falls and they leave you, if you really love them, you will let them go happily. Love has no expectations. All pain in the relationship is blocked love.

There is a wonderful opportunity to bring devotion to your relationship. The real problem here is; Are you prepared to make the love between you and your lover a priority in your life? That means it is more important than your job, your sport, your children and your wealth.

Throughout the universe, each molecule has a place, a role, a gift. If you can be grateful for what you have, for the blessing of life itself, and remind yourself how lucky you are, your whole life will change with just that recognition. We complain about love only because we expect more and more. But we forget how lucky we are. Once you see the gift of a lifetime, your heart will open again, your youth will shine, your energy will become contagious, and your health will take a resplendent leap. The music sounds different and life, like a spring flower, opens and opens and opens. Stay humble before the gift and count your blessings.